How to make your marriage everything you always hoped it would be! Read this book!

"Every Man a Hero, Every Woman a Coach" by Joel Orr Click here to play Joel's message -->

Do you ever wonder why marriage seems to be so hard? What you might do differently, to make things better?

Do you wonder if there is a secret that you somehow missed? Something you forgot from your parents' training, or your pastoral pre-marital counseling?

Model for a Good Marriage

I've been a technology consultant since 1974. I've learned, working with engineers of all stripes, that the secret to dealing effectively with complex situations is in having a good model.

What's makes a model good or bad? I think the most useful quality of a good model is predictiveness. That is, it tells you what to expect under various conditions.

My new book, Every Man a Hero, Every Woman a Coach, reveals the best model that I know of for a godly marriage.

To tell the truth, I don't know if the Hero/Coach model is the only one that works. But I can tell you this: It's worked - and continues to work - to make my  marriage more glorious and fulfilling than I ever imagined it could be! And it has done the same for the many couples that N'omi and I have shared it with.

"Transformed our marriage!"

Ramon and Antoinette Williamson

Here's the complete table of contents:

I. YOUR SELF, YOUR DESTINY, and YOUR RELATIONSHIPS 1. Equality versus Partnership: The difference that makes all the difference! 3 2. Why Are We Here? What can we know about the meaning of life? 7 3. When a Man Meets a Woman: What happens when a man meets his mate? 9 4. When a Woman Meets a Man: What happens when a woman meets her mate? 13 5. Being a Hero: Men, take advantage of your wife’s special abilities to help you achieve you dreams! 15 6. Keep Love Alive with “The Five Love Languages”: What you don’t use, you lose. 19 7. Why Am I Here? How the “hard-wiring” of our nervous systems affects our relationships. 23 8. My Choices Change My World: How the way we process information affects our relationships. 33 9. Character: What is it? How does it affect our relationships? 37 10. Responsibility: How taking blame empowers you to change things. 41 11. Two Roads: What if “something” tells you not to trust someone? Or to take an umbrella? 46 12. Commitment: How it makes or breaks relationships. 51 13. Integrity: How to overcome adversity through integrity. 54 14. Respect is Your Unalienable Right: How self-esteem, self-respect, and self-worth affect relationships. 57 15. A Clear Path: How doing your duty is a protected path through life’s dangers. 62 16. Do the Right Thing: Why should I “do the right thing” when no one else does? 66 17. Destiny: What is destiny? Can I tell what my destiny is? 71 18. Priorities: Setting priorities is easy, when you know the trick. 73 19. Feelings: The surprisingly simple giant step we can all take toward emotional maturity. 79 II. MARRIED LIFE 20. Men and Women: How to understand and take advantage of the differences. 89 21. Love: Just what is it? 93 22. Why Are There So Few Good Marriages? The reasons are complex. The cure is simple. 95 23. The Purpose of Marriage: Why get married at all? 97 24. Preparing for Marriage: How partners can strengthen each other and createa new world for their children and extended family. 102 25. Making Love: Making the marriage bed a place of joy and fulfillment. 105 26. Communication: Etiquette for the rough places in marriage. 109 27. Shutting Her Out: How men destroy their own success and happiness. 112 28. Coaching Your Hero: How to help him without hurting him. 115 29. The Moral High Ground: What is it? And how do you attain it—and get the Hero there too? 117 30. Coach: Require. Don’t Demand or Compel: How to encourage cooperation and kind behavior. 120 31. Pitfalls in Coaching: How to lose the moral high ground in a relationship, and how to regain it. 128 32. Arguing: How we handle it determines what happens next. 131 33. Money: Tame the Money Monster instead of fighting it. 133 34. Criticism: Can you take it? Can you give it? 136 35. Praise: Can you take it? Can you give it? 139 36. Gifts: What part does gift-giving play in marriage? 141 37. Courtesy: Learn about courtesy in marriage—or else! 201 38. Change: You can cope with the most stressful life influences and keep your marriage humming. 148 III. FAMILY LIFE 39. Family—Society’s Building Block: What does a successful family look like? 155 40. Family Life—Preparation for Growth: The pattern for lifelong personal fulfillment. 164 IV. YOUR CHILD and YOUR CHILDREN 41. Children: Training them to live up to their best selves—a full-time job. 171 42. The Terrible Two’s: How to avoid this most-dreaded phase—in your child, and in yourself. 176 V. AND IN CONCLUSION… 43. The Ground Rules: Rules for the daily rough-and-tumble of the typical marriage. 181 44. Pornography: The thief of happy human relationships. 183 45. You Can Do This! A brief summary of the Hero/Coach model  of marriage. 187 46. The God Thing: Does the Hero/Coach model work if you believe in God? Or if you don’t? 188 RECOMMENDED READING  189

Love and blessings,

P.S. Still not sure? Remember, if you decide at any time that you don't like my book, return it for a full refund! NO time limit! And access to the bonus recordings is still yours!

P.P.S. from my wife, N'omi: "I picked up 'Every Man a Hero, Every Woman a Coach' today to copy down some information - and I couldn't put it down! Even after editing the book and reading it through more times than I can count, the information is so powerful, and so beautifully presented, I just keep reading it! Buy the book for yourself, and you'll want more copies for your kids, for your friends, and for everyone you know!"