How to make your marriage everything you always
hoped it would be! Read this book!
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"Every Man a Hero, Every Woman a Coach"
by Joel Orr
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Do you
ever wonder why marriage seems to be so hard? What you might
do differently, to make things better?
| "Best
relationship book I ever read!" |
| Dr. Jon Ruthven, Regent
University |
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Do you
wonder if there is a secret that you somehow missed? Something you
forgot from your parents' training, or your pastoral pre-marital
counseling?
Model
for a Good Marriage
I've been a technology
consultant since 1974. I've learned, working with engineers of all
stripes, that the secret to dealing effectively with complex situations
is in having a good model.
What makes a model
good or bad? I think the most useful quality of a good model is predictiveness.
That is, it tells you what to expect under various conditions.
My
new book, Every
Man a Hero, Every Woman a Coach,
reveals the best model that I know of for a godly marriage.
To
tell the truth, I don't know if the Hero/Coach model is the only one
that works. But I can tell you this: It's worked - and continues to
work - to make my marriage more glorious and fulfilling than
I ever imagined it could be! And it has done the same for the many
couples that N'omi and I have shared it with.
| "Transformed
our marriage!" |
| Ramon and Antoinette
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Here's the complete table of
contents:
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I. YOUR SELF, YOUR DESTINY, and YOUR
RELATIONSHIPS
1. Equality versus Partnership:
The difference that makes all the difference! 3
2. Why Are We Here?
What can we know about the meaning of life? 7
3. When a Man Meets a Woman:
What happens when a man meets his mate? 9
4. When a Woman Meets a Man:
What happens when a woman meets her mate? 13
5. Being a Hero:
Men, take advantage of your wife’s special abilities to help
you achieve you dreams! 15
6. Keep Love Alive with
“The Five Love Languages”:
What you don’t use, you lose. 19
7. Why Am I Here?
How the “hard-wiring” of our nervous systems
affects our relationships. 23
8. My Choices Change My World:
How the way we process information affects our relationships. 33
9. Character:
What is it? How does it affect our relationships? 37
10. Responsibility:
How taking blame empowers you to change things. 41
11. Two Roads:
What if “something” tells you not to trust someone?
Or to take an umbrella? 46
12. Commitment:
How it makes or breaks relationships. 51
13. Integrity:
How to overcome adversity through integrity. 54
14. Respect is Your Unalienable Right:
How self-esteem, self-respect, and self-worth affect relationships. 57
15. A Clear Path:
How doing your duty is a protected path through life’s
dangers. 62
16. Do the Right Thing:
Why should I “do the right thing” when no one else
does? 66
17. Destiny:
What is destiny? Can I tell what my destiny is? 71
18. Priorities:
Setting priorities is easy, when you know the trick. 73
19. Feelings:
The surprisingly simple giant step we can all take toward emotional
maturity. 79
II. MARRIED LIFE
20. Men and Women:
How to understand and take advantage of the differences. 89
21. Love:
Just what is it? 93
22. Why Are There So Few Good Marriages?
The reasons are complex. The cure is simple. 95
23. The Purpose of Marriage:
Why get married at all? 97
24. Preparing for Marriage:
How partners can strengthen each other and createa new world for their
children and extended family. 102
25. Making Love:
Making the marriage bed a place of joy and fulfillment. 105
26. Communication:
Etiquette for the rough places in marriage. 109
27. Shutting Her Out:
How men destroy their own success and happiness. 112
28. Coaching Your Hero:
How to help him without hurting him. 115
29. The Moral High Ground:
What is it? And how do you attain it—and get the Hero there
too? 117
30. Coach: Require. Don’t Demand or Compel:
How to encourage cooperation and kind behavior. 120
31. Pitfalls in Coaching:
How to lose the moral high ground in a relationship, and how to regain
it. 128
32. Arguing:
How we handle it determines what happens next. 131
33. Money:
Tame the Money Monster instead of fighting it. 133
34. Criticism:
Can you take it? Can you give it? 136
35. Praise:
Can you take it? Can you give it? 139
36. Gifts:
What part does gift-giving play in marriage? 141
37. Courtesy:
Learn about courtesy in marriage—or else! 201
38. Change:
You can cope with the most stressful life influences and keep your
marriage humming. 148
III. FAMILY LIFE
39. Family—Society’s Building Block:
What does a successful family look like? 155
40. Family Life—Preparation for Growth:
The pattern for lifelong personal fulfillment. 164
IV. YOUR CHILD and YOUR CHILDREN
41. Children:
Training them to live up to their best selves—a full-time
job. 171
42. The Terrible Two’s:
How to avoid this most-dreaded phase—in your child, and in
yourself. 176
V. AND IN CONCLUSION…
43. The Ground Rules:
Rules for the daily rough-and-tumble of the typical marriage. 181
44. Pornography:
The thief of happy human relationships. 183
45. You Can Do This!
A brief summary of the Hero/Coach model of marriage. 187
46. The God Thing:
Does the Hero/Coach model work if you believe in God? Or if you
don’t? 188
RECOMMENDED READING 189
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